This past week I had to say a bittersweet goodbye to my youngest daughter as she left for a year to study in Ireland. She will complete an MBA program in International Marketing at the University College Dublin.
Why the bitter and the sweet? I am sad because I will miss her terribly even though she hasn’t lived at home for several years. It is also satisfyingly sweet because I am just about bursting with pride; she is brave and smart and I’ve managed to teach her well that education is one of the true investments in her life.
Ciara (the Gaelic name is pronounced “kira”) has dual Irish/American citizenship because she was born there when our family lived there in the 1980s. When we left Ireland for good in 1984 we found that we had saved buckets of Irish pence and halfpence and other troublesome coins heavier or tinier or strangely-shaped compared to our familiar U.S. coins. While we lived in Ireland we found the money cumbersome and confusing and rarely carried any with us, preferring instead to empty our pockets into jars tucked into cupboards around the house.
When we prepared to return to the States and I was packing up our household 25 years ago, one of my last tasks was to truck the coins to a local Irish bank. I chose the EBS or Educational Building Society and deposited the heavy packets of coin into an account for my daughter who was only five months old. I had fantasies that the 50 plus Irish punts (or Irish “pounds” worth about $99 at the time) would grow and be somewhat meaningful to her one day.
She had a “pot of gold at the end of the rainbow” or so we told her over the years. We added gift amounts to the fund a few times early on and that money accrued interest for the last quarter of a century when we basically forgot about it in the last two decades.
What possible connection to the library can I make here? The lesson, of course, is that investing in the future might not make much sense in the pennies or pence of today. It isn’t always in the forefront of our minds that our hard-earned pennies and quarters and dollars will someday prove to be such a worthwhile investment. Yet, the Norwood community has always had this eye on the future.